3 Things You Should Never Tell a Woman

Today, I want to share three important things you should never tell a woman. These tips can save you a lot of trouble in your relationships. Trust me, understanding these points will change the way you interact with women.

I’ll start with this: the third point is the most important. But to really get it, you’ve got to understand the first two. Let’s dive in!

1. Don’t Tell Her You’re in Love with Her

Never let a woman know you’re in love with her. When you do, it changes how she sees you—and not in a good way. Women start doubting your value when they feel like you’re “too into them.” They may wonder if they can do better or if you’re strong enough to lead.

Here’s the thing: when a woman senses that you’re in love, she might see it as a weakness. It’s not just about saying the words “I’m in love with you.” It’s also about the small things—your tone of voice, how you look at her, and even your body language.

If you’ve ever had an ex pull away after you showed how much you cared, this is likely why. Women don’t want a man who’s ruled by his emotions. Instead, they’re drawn to men who stay confident and steady, no matter what.

2. Don’t Tell Her How She Makes You Feel

Avoid telling a woman things like, “You make me feel amazing,” or, “I’ve never felt this way before.” Sure, those feelings might be true, but sharing them can hurt your relationship.

Here’s why: when you tell her how she makes you feel, it shows her that your emotions are tied to her actions. Women want to feel like their man is strong, like a brick wall that can’t be moved by emotions—good or bad.

If she sees that she can affect your emotions, even in a positive way, she might start doubting your strength and stability. This doubt can lead to her losing attraction for you. And unfortunately, once this happens, it’s tough to fix.

3. Don’t Tell Her You’ve Been Cheated On or Heartbroken

This one is huge. Never tell a woman you’ve been cheated on or heartbroken in the past. Why? Because women know how other women think.

When she hears that someone else hurt you, she might start wondering why. Even worse, she may test to see if she can put you in that same vulnerable position.

Women are naturally drawn to men who seem like life has been easy for them—men who look strong, confident, and unshaken by the past. When you share stories of heartbreak or betrayal, it makes you seem emotionally weak. That’s not the vibe you want to give off.

Why This Matters

At the end of the day, women are attracted to strength, confidence, and ease. When you avoid sharing these three things, you’re showing her that you’re steady, happy, and unaffected by drama. That’s the kind of energy women want to be around.

If you found this helpful, let me know! I’ve spent years learning and teaching these principles through a process I created called the Language of Women. It’s helped over 1,200 men improve their relationships and attract the kind of women they want.

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