How I’d Get a Girlfriend Today

I thought it’d be fun to break down how I’d go about getting a girlfriend if I was starting totally from scratch. I’m talking about no understanding of attraction, no experience with women, no self-improvement yet. This is just me figuring it out step-by-step, real simple. So here we go!

Step 1: Start with the Mirror

First thing I’d do? Walk over to a mirror and take a hard look at myself. Ask: Do I look attractive? It’s important because how you look, especially your fitness, matters. Women are wired to notice physical signs of health, like a lean, toned body. So, if I see things to improve, I’m hitting the gym, dropping some body fat, and building muscle. Lean faces, angled jawlines, and a fit body catch eyes, so that’s my first move.

Step 2: Choose a “Look” That Fits

Next, I’d pick a style that feels like “me.” Women like a guy with a vibe – the football player, the surfer, the musician. It doesn’t matter which look I choose, just that it’s me. If you’re trying to be something you’re not, women pick up on it. So, I’d create a look that feels real for me, making sure my style matches who I am, right down to my clothes and the way I carry myself. Now, I’m starting to build that sense of mystery and identity women want to uncover.

Step 3: Audit My Friend Circle

Then, I’d take a good look at who I’m spending time with. If my friends are loud, needy, or trying too hard, they’ll make me look low-value too. So, I’d surround myself with guys who have their own confidence and self-respect, who don’t have to chase attention. That way, when women see us out, they know I’m with people who match my energy.

Step 4: Get Out, Socialize, and Build a Circle

After that, it’s time to get out there and meet people. I’d focus on making connections, creating a group, and building up a reputation without trying to flirt or pick up every girl I meet. By doing that, I’d create a sense of mystery. Women start wondering who I am because I’m not giving them my attention. This approach makes them want to find out more about me on their own.

Step 5: Only Choose Women Who Choose Me

Finally, the golden rule – only date women who show clear interest in me. If she’s complimenting me, trying to be near me, and making an effort, that’s my green light. I’d pick dates from the girls who are interested, no chasing. Women sense when a guy has options and when he’s focused on his life – that’s powerful.

Remember, you attract what you are. Work on your internal value, and you’ll attract the right kind of woman into your life.

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