How Women Test You – and What It Means

Today, we’re going to talk about something every guy needs to know: the levels of how women test you. This might be surprising, but most of this stuff happens on their phones! Yep, their phones are their main way of testing your interest and trying to see where they stand with you. Let’s break it down.

1. The Double-Text Test

This is a classic. You send her a message, and she doesn’t respond for hours. She’s waiting to see if you’ll send another message before she even replies! Why? Because if you double-text, she thinks she’s got the upper hand. It shows her how interested you are, and she may even lose interest if she thinks you’re too eager.

What to Do: Don’t send that second text. Wait it out. She’ll come around if she’s interested, and this shows her you’re confident and not desperate.

2. Do Not Disturb

She texts back, and then suddenly, her phone says “Notifications Silenced.” She’s doing this to make it look like she’s busy or not as available as she seems. It’s a test to see if you’ll get anxious and reach out again.

What to Do: Stay calm. A strong man doesn’t need to chase attention. Keep living your life, and don’t let her phone games throw you off.

3. Social Media Posts

She’ll post on social media but not reply to your text. Why? She wants you to see her having fun and to wonder why she hasn’t replied to you. It’s a game to make you feel a bit ignored, so you’ll start wondering about her.

What to Do: Don’t get upset or comment on it. Remember, you’re confident. She’ll reach out if she’s interested, and you’re not here to give in to her games.

4. Last-Minute Flake

Let’s say you planned a date, and she cancels last minute with an excuse. She might be testing to see if you’ll jump at the chance to reschedule immediately. If you do, she knows she’s your main focus.

What to Do: Don’t rush to reschedule. A king doesn’t let anyone mess with his time, so she needs to see that you’re not easily moved. This makes her see you as a strong, solid guy.

5. Pullback Test

This test often happens once you’ve gone on a few dates or after things get physical. She may pull away and not contact you for a week or two. What’s happening? She’s testing to see if you’re already “hooked” on her and if you’ll reach out.

What to Do: Don’t text her or ask what’s going on. You’re showing her that you’re still good with or without her in the picture.

Remember, you attract what you are. Work on your internal value, and you’ll attract the right kind of woman into your life.

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