Never Let Your Guard Down with Women

I want to share a little secret today: Never, under any circumstances, let your guard down with a woman. That's right. It doesn’t matter what she says, how she acts, or what she claims she wants. Let me explain why.

Women might say they want you to be open, emotional, or vulnerable. But here’s the truth: what they say they want isn’t what they respond to. I’ve tested this many times. For example, I’ve tried being super emotional and talking about my goals on dates, only for women to pull away afterward. When I act with strength, though, their interest stays.

Women test us without saying it out loud. They might say, “Are you always this closed off?” or “I like men who share their feelings.” But when you fall for it, it actually lowers their attraction. It shows them you’re easy to influence. This lowers your competency in their eyes, which makes them lose interest.

I often talk about Adam and Eve for a reason. Just like Eve tempted Adam, women test us to see if we’ll “bite the fruit.” If you do, you’re disqualified. But if you stand strong, you stay in control.

Here’s why this happens. Men and women look for different things in relationships. Men often want an abundance of choices. Women, though, are wired to look for quality over quantity. They need to know you have strength, that you can stand your ground, and that you won’t be swayed.

In my community, we focus on keeping men aware of these dynamics. We help men regain control in dating. I even have a free group with step-by-step guidance for how to stay strong in relationships. Remember, guys, women want to see if you can be led, but they’re truly drawn to a man who leads himself. Keep this in mind every time you go on a date or start a conversation.

Thanks for reading, and remember: stay aware, stay strong, and never forget your worth!