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Signs You Might Be Getting Played by a Woman

Nov 11, 2024

Today, I want to talk about some signs that can help you know if a woman is not being honest with you. Sometimes, when you're getting to know someone, it can feel like you're doing a lot of the work. You might feel like you’re hoping things will work out when they really aren't. Let’s go through some of the signs to watch for, so you can understand what's happening.

What Is "Getting Played"?

When we say "getting played," it means that someone is taking advantage of you. This could be taking your time, your attention, or your feelings without really caring about you. It’s important to recognize if this is happening to you.

The Golden Rule

One big idea to remember is that some women might just want your attention, not a real relationship. They might like knowing that you think they’re attractive, but that doesn’t mean they want to date you.

Signs to Look Out For

  1. Digital But Not Real Life: If she talks to you a lot on her phone but never wants to meet up in person, that’s a sign. If she's just texting or messaging you but never makes plans to see you, it may mean she’s just looking for someone to pay attention to her.

  2. Distant Communication: You might see her sometimes or even spend time together, but if she doesn’t reach out to you much, that could mean you are just one of many guys she’s talking to. She might be testing out different guys to see who she likes best.

What You Can Do

If you notice these signs, it’s important not to get too attached. Focus on being the best version of yourself. Work on your own interests and goals, and be strong and confident. This way, if she is playing games, you’ll be ready to move on.

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