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Understanding Women: It's Not About High Standards

Nov 08, 2024

I want to talk about something important: women and their standards. You might think that women have high standards when it comes to dating, but that’s not always true. Let me tell you a story to explain this better.

A Story from School

I remember a guy from my elementary and middle school. He was on my football team, and he was not the quietest person. In fact, the teachers often told him to be quiet because he just couldn't stop talking! He was always a bit different from the other kids and didn’t act the way everyone else did. But guess what? He was really fun to be around, and we all laughed at his jokes.

As this guy grew up, he went on some adventures. When he turned 21, he went to Las Vegas. Within an hour of checking into his hotel, he was talking to a woman, and by the end of the weekend, he had been with three different girls!

What’s the Secret?

So, what was his secret? He didn’t care about being popular or having lots of money. He just acted like himself. He didn’t follow the rules that everyone else thought were important. Instead, he was free and confident.

You see, women often like guys who are themselves and don’t worry about what others think. They are attracted to men who are not always focused on being the best at everything or following what everyone says is cool.

Confidence is Key

Here’s another important idea: confidence is more important than having lots of money or fancy things. When a guy feels good about himself and doesn’t care about fitting in, women notice! They like it when a guy can be himself without trying too hard to impress anyone.

This is very different from what many people think. They believe that to be liked, you need to have lots of followers on social media or a nice car. But that’s not true! The best thing you can be is yourself.

Being Socially Brave

You might feel nervous about talking to new people, and that’s okay! Sometimes, you can take a risk and say something a little silly or different. Even if it feels awkward, it helps you grow and learn how to connect with others.

When a woman sees that you are relaxed and confident, she feels safe and comfortable around you. It makes her want to spend more time with you.

Wrapping Up

So remember, women don't have super high standards. They like guys who are confident and just being themselves. If you can be that person, you’ll find that dating can be a lot easier than you think!

Remember, you attract what you are. Work on your internal value, and you’ll attract the right kind of woman into your life.

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