Why It’s Good When She Tests You

Today, I want to talk about something important: tests from women. A lot of guys don’t know it, but when a woman is interested, she often “tests” you. These tests are actually a good thing! They show she’s attracted to you and wants to see if you’re the kind of guy she’d like to be with.

Test #1: Changing Her Tone

Sometimes, a girl might suddenly act annoyed or change her tone of voice with you. She might say something like, “I’m mad at you,” or just seem upset out of nowhere. Don’t worry! She’s just seeing if you’ll stay calm or if you’ll let it bother you. The best thing to do? Be like a “brick wall” – strong and steady. Just stay relaxed and don’t react. She’ll respect that you’re not easily moved.

Test #2: Changing Your Opinion

Another test is when she tries to change your mind. For example, you might say you don’t like a certain style of clothes, and she says, “I think they look great!” If you change your opinion just to match hers, she might think you’re too easily swayed. Stick to what you believe – she’ll respect you more for it.

Test #3: Checking Your Availability

Sometimes, a girl might tell you she’s “busy” when you ask her out, even if she’s not. She just wants to see if you’ll try to reschedule quickly. A guy with options won’t worry too much if he can’t meet her right away. So, keep things casual and don’t chase after every chance to meet. This shows her you’re confident and have other things going on.

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