Why Love Might Not Be What You Think

Today, I want to talk about a big topic: love. A lot of people believe in "true love," but I want to share a different perspective that you might not hear about often.

Is Love Just a Feeling? Some people think love is like magic, something that happens perfectly between two people. But from what I've seen, love often comes down to one main thing: how much each person wants the other. This "wanting" is based on something called SMV, or sexual market value. That just means how attractive someone seems to others based on things like looks, confidence, or popularity.

When You Like Someone, They Might Not Like You Back Here’s something that happens a lot: the people you’re really into might not feel the same way. You might find that the people you like don’t like you back, and the people who do like you aren’t as interesting to you. This is all because of the difference in how each person sees their own value compared to the other.

Why Mutual Love is Rare Most of us spend years looking for that “perfect love” where two people like each other the exact same amount. But from what I’ve seen, that doesn’t really happen. One person often wants the other more, and that’s what we end up calling “love.”

How Attraction Works When you meet someone, it’s easy to feel excited and want to tell them how you feel. But here’s something to keep in mind: showing too much interest can sometimes make you seem less interesting. Women especially might feel like they can “do better” if you’re acting too eager. So, it’s best to keep your feelings in check.

The Truth About Love in Relationships If you’re in a long-term relationship, things can change over time. One day, the person who seemed perfect might feel less interested, and that’s hard to handle. This doesn’t mean you did anything wrong; it’s just how attraction can change over time.

So, if you ever feel down about love, remember, it’s not always about finding the “perfect match.” It’s more about understanding how attraction works and knowing that “perfect love” might not be exactly what we think.

Remember, you attract what you are. Work on your internal value, and you’ll attract the right kind of woman into your life.

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