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Why Women Don’t Want You to Like Them

Nov 11, 2024

Today, I want to talk about something that might be tough to hear. But if you really get it, life will make a lot more sense. So, here’s the truth: women don’t want you to like them right away. I know it sounds strange, but it’s how things work.

When you meet a woman you like, it’s natural to show her you care. You might think she’ll like you more because of it. But actually, the opposite usually happens. Most women pull away when they see a guy getting too interested too fast. They might even think he’s less valuable because of it.

This isn’t something women talk about, but it’s real. The reason has a lot to do with how attraction works. Women often feel more drawn to guys who seem like they don’t need them. They like men who have their own lives, are confident, and don’t go out of their way to impress.

It’s not about being mean or playing games. It’s about not giving up your own life for someone else. When you’re happy on your own, doing what you love, you show that you’re strong and valuable. And that’s what women find attractive.

So, if you meet someone you like, remember this: focus on your life and your goals. Don’t put anyone on a pedestal. It might be tough to believe at first, but when you don’t try so hard, women will notice you more. They’ll see you as someone worth being with, and they’ll be the ones wanting to spend time with you.