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Why Women Pull Away – And How to Avoid It

Nov 12, 2024

Today, I’m going to talk about why women sometimes stop talking to the men they’re seeing. For some of you, this might sting a bit, but it’s important to understand so you don’t make the same mistakes over and over. So let’s dive into it.

Why She’s Not Falling for You Like You Thought

One of the biggest things you need to know is that women don’t fall in love through sex like men do. I know you might think that if you’re close like that, she must really like you, but it doesn’t work that way. Women feel attached through other things, like your personality and how you make them feel. So if you thought that just because you’re spending nights together, she’d want a relationship, that’s not always the case.

Don’t Be Too Available

Here’s something to remember: Women like a challenge. If she can tell you’re always available, like replying to every text right away or always picking up her calls, it can actually make her lose interest. When she knows she can have your attention whenever she wants, it might make her feel less excited to see you. If she’s sure you’re there all the time, she might even think she’s the best you can get. To keep her interest, try not to be too predictable.

Stop Taking Things So Seriously

Another reason she might pull away is if you take things too seriously. Women like to feel like they’re the ones working for your attention, not the other way around. So, instead of getting too invested or future-planning with her, just enjoy the moment. When you start acting like she’s your whole world, she might feel like you’re not as valuable as she first thought. Instead, stay relaxed and show that you’re confident on your own.

Don’t Push for a Relationship

Last but not least, women can sense if you’re trying to turn casual dating into a serious relationship. If you’re dropping hints that you want commitment or getting too attached, it can actually turn her off. She wants to feel like she’s won you over—not like you’re ready to settle down after a few dates. Let her feel like she’s working to keep your interest, and she’ll respect you more for it.

Remember This!

If she pulls away, don’t panic. Keep things light, don’t always be available, and let her work for your attention. Relationships should be balanced, so if you’re doing all the work, she might not feel the same spark. Remember, the key to attraction is making her wonder where she stands with you.

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