Why Your Environment Can Affect Your Relationship Status

Recently, I had a crazy experience at a restaurant, and it really made me think. My brother Cole and I were out at this nice spot. The place was cool—it’s connected to a private jet hangar. Now, I thought it was a great place to have a meal, but after being there, I realized it wasn’t the best choice if I wanted to make a good impression on a date.

Here’s the thing: when you're with a woman, especially in a fancy place, you’ve got to consider the environment. If she’s surrounded by flashy things, it could hurt your status. Even if you think you’re impressing her with a nice dinner, the private jets flying in behind you may make her wonder about the kind of man she’s really with. And trust me, if you’re not at a place you can afford, it can make her question your status.

I’m not saying you need a private jet to impress a woman, but you do need to think about the bigger picture. If she sees wealth and status around her, she might start comparing. She might think, "Hey, I wonder what it’s like to be with one of those guys flying in on that jet." You could be paying for a $100 meal, but she’s looking out the window, thinking about the man with the jet. That’s the reality.

So, what's the lesson here? As a man, you've got to build your own status. Don’t just show up to places hoping to impress. You’ve got to be the kind of man who is active and driven, not passive. Being passive—like sitting at a sports event and cheering for another man—doesn't make you look like the superhero in your own story. Women want to be with a man who is actively playing his own game, not just watching others play theirs.

It goes even deeper than that. When you're around a lot of successful, powerful people, like we were at that restaurant, it can affect her attraction to you. She might start wondering, "What would it be like to be with someone like him?" That’s why you’ve got to be careful about where you take your date and what kind of environment you put yourself in.

Remember, the key to attracting the right kind of woman is being the best version of yourself. It's not just about the money or the fancy places you go—it’s about being the kind of man who’s always improving, always striving, and always setting himself apart from the rest. You don’t need to be perfect, but you need to be constantly working on yourself and building your own unique status.

Remember, you attract what you are. Work on your internal value, and you’ll attract the right kind of woman into your life.

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